30 Days of Kink – Day 3

Day 3: How did you discover you were kinky?

I’m sure like many people, I first discovered kink on the internet of course.

I always loved reading and writing, especially romance novels. So naturally I stumbled upon a great site for amature writers to post their erotica etc. called Literotica. (I have a few stories posted on there). Browning through their categories I noticed BDSM. That was when I was about 15 and I had never heard of it before so I was curious. I clicked on it and read a few stories and instantly decided I liked it and that’s what I wanted in a relationship.

After that I kept doing more research on the internet and discovered new things. Fetlife opened up a lot of kinks to me as well.

Ever since that first click on the BDSM category though, I was completely hooked to kink, haven’t stopped thinking about it since haha.

Picture fromĀ here.

30 Days of Kink – Day 2

Day 2: List your kinks.

Well like I said on Day 1, Daddy & I are into various aspects of DDLG, BDSM, D/s, & Domestic Discipline.

I would say we connect most with DDLG. He is my Daddy & I am his babygirl.

As far as listing what we’re into… It’s almost endless and we discover new things we want to try all the time, but I will try to list the major ones…

  • Toys: butt plugs, vibrators of sorts, nipple clamps, rope, collars, etc.
  • Punishments: spanking, corner time, etc.
  • Power exchange: my Daddy is always in charge.
  • Humiliation: (we won’t go into specifics haha but it has a lot to do with urine)
  • DDLG stuff: binkies, little girl outfits, stuffies, etc.

    Picture from here.

    30 Days of Kink – Day 1

    Day 1: Dom, sub, switch? What parts of BDSM interest you? Give us an interesting in-depth definition of what that means to you. Basically define your kinky self.

    I’ve seen this on a few blogs and thought it mind be fun to try.

    Well I am, first and foremost, my Daddy’s babygirl. I think we would mostly identify as a DDLG couple (we’ve decided that strict Domestic Discipline  wasn’t for us). We use different aspects of BDSM, D/s, and Domestic Discipline in our relationship.

    We naturally started calling each other Daddy & babygirl when we first got together before we had heard of DDLG. We stumbled upon DDLG on tumblr and we instantly identified with it and took our relationship further into it.

    Ever since I stumbled upon BDSM on Literotica, I knew it’s what I wanted in a relationship. I knew I wanted the man to be in control and I be submissive to them. It just always seemed right to me to have a man in charge.

    I have never had a serious Kink relationship until I met my Daddy. We are very happy together and our Kink life continues to grow with each other. At first, I was afraid to tell him all the things I was into, but once we got more comfortable with each other we found that we liked the same things. We try different rope, toys, anal play, spanking, punishments, etc. We’ve explored a lot of new things together and continue to do so.

    I love my DDLG relationship with my Daddy!

    Picture from here.